Dis Connection Disconnection

Confused by men?? - w4m - 29
I don't understand the current phenomenon that seems to just be happening to me. I meet a guy things go well and then they progress enough that I feel comfortable ... then I let my guard down! That's when everything goes wrong!! No warning or any communication ... the guy just disappears! I don't understand this I'm quit pretty and cool to hang out with (or at least that's what I'm told) but the guys around here seem to freak out and think its better to just stop calling then actually be honest and respectful of the other person. If anyone out there has thoughts or if this happens to you let me know ... cause its hard to not take it personally!!
this is in or around The Colony